“We need changes from the duties and the cares of our accustomed everyday life. They are necessary for healthy, normal living. We need occasionally to be away from our friends, our relatives, from the members of our immediate households. Such changes are good for us; they are good for them. We appreciate them better, they us, when we are away from them for a period, or they from us.
We need these changes to get the kinks out of our minds, our nerves, our muscles—the cobwebs off our faces. We need them to whet again the edge of appetite. We need them to invite the mind and the soul to new possibilities and powers. We need them in order to come back with new implements, or with implements redressed, sharpened, for the daily duties.
We need periods of being by ourselves—alone. Sometimes a fortnight or even a week will do wonders for one, unless he or she has drawn too heavily upon the account. The simple custom, moreover, of taking an hour, or even a half hour, alone in the quiet, in the midst of the daily routine of life, would be the source of inestimable gain for countless numbers.”
-Ralph Waldo Trine, Thoughts I Met on the Highway- 1919
Be Motivated by Spending Time Alone
I stumbled across this book and was completely taken aback by it because it is full of such wisdom- and it was written in 1919! That was ninety three years ago- wow. He was so far ahead of his time.
The quote above is so powerful, you may want to read it again. We have such crazy lives and we are always on the go.
There are two reasons why this concept of spending time alone is so important:
1) The only way you can tell if you are on track in your life is to (on occasion) make some plans for alone time and space to be alone with your thoughts.
2) If you don’t get time for recuperation, it leads to burnout. (note: running around like a mad person on vacation isn’t necessarily the best recuperation. I see people returning from Disney who look more exhausted than anything else. ) So make time for you. Make time for quiet reflection time. You may see something in the reflection you have never seen. You may discover “new possibilities and powers.”
Shawn Doyle is the author of 14 books and a professional speaker and trainer. His website is www.sldoyle.com





