Clues To Your Toddlers Gambling Problem

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toddlers gambling problemDoes your child have a gambling problem? I thought I’d lighten up your day and let you know the clues to your toddlers gambling problem according to a recent study. This is from an article in CTVNews

Clues To Your Toddlers Gambling Problem

Parents who dismiss a toddler’s foot-stomping and tantrum-throwing as ordinary growing pains may want to revisit that idea. Defiant, impulsive behaviour in preschool could hint that a child is at risk of developing a gambling problem later on in life.

At least that’s the takeaway from a recent study published in Psychological Science linking “under-controlled” temperament in childhood to compulsive gambling.

Researchers established the link by observing the behaviour of more than 1,000 toddlers from New Zealand and then following up with those individuals a few decades later.

Participants who were labelled as more restless, moody or inattentive than other three-year-old children were twice as likely to struggle with gambling at ages 21 and 32, the study found.

For David Hodgins, a psychologist who specializes in addictive behaviours, the study could help demystify the connection between impulsive gambling and the human brain.

“Studies like this help us clarify what the pathway is towards developing gambling and other addiction and mental health problems,” said Hodgins, head of the University of Calgary’s psychology department.

Up until now, Hodgins said the medical field’s understanding of gambling issues and other addictions has been limited to studies of people who have already developed a problem.

All study subjects were born in the same birth cohort — between April 1, 1972 and March 31, 1973 — and were monitored by researchers as early as delivery. Investigators collected prenatal statistics on the individuals, and then followed up with the kids three years later.

At that point, the toddlers underwent a 90-minute assessment, which put their cognitive and motor skills to the test. An examiner then took note of each child’s overall temperament, using what the study refers to as “a standardized behavioral-observation inventory.”

Researchers used the results to sort the children into five temperament groups:

  1. Under-controlled (10.4 per cent)
  2. Inhibited (7.8 per cent)
  3. Confident (27.5 per cent)
  4. Reserved (14.8 per cent)
  5. Well-adjusted (39.6 per cent)

Children in the “under-controlled” category were viewed by researchers as being willful, impulsive and overtly negative. Compared to their “well-adjusted” and even “reserved” counterparts, these toddlers were twice as likely to exhibit signs of disordered gambling in adulthood.

Click here to read more of why gambling addiction can be traced to your toddler gambling problem

Now to tell you the truth I’m not sure this is an actual study or someone pulling our legs. I mean the leaps in logic and the large gaps in the methodology are so big you could drive a tank through it. Anyone familiar with any of the energy psychology’s or quantum medicine techniques already knows techniques to give anyone control over their emotions and with control over your emotions you can dissolve an addition.

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Treatment For Borderline Personality Disorder

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treatment for borderline personality disorderIf people really want to get treatment for borderline personality disorder it would help by looking at it in a different way. And here is the way…100% of the 9 criteria for BPD are emotionally based and if those aspects are addressed or reversed BPD is no longer a problem. And there is a quick way mentioned later in this article.

However, most people identity with emotions as real and not within the control of the individual. And if they are not then any of these 9 criteria qualify you to get treatment for borderline personality disorder according to the American Psychiatric Association DSM-IV. The bible for diagnosing mental disease.

1. frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5

2. a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.

3. identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.

4. impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5.

5. recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating behavior

6. affective instability due to a marked re-activity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days).

7. chronic feelings of emptiness

8. inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights)

9. transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms

Treatment For Borderline Personality Disorder

Kate Thieda wrote over at psychcentral

If you have a partner with borderline personality disorder (BPD), the phrase “walking on eggshells” likely defines your life. People with BPD struggle to regulate their emotions, even though the emotions they experience are the same as the rest of us.

During “frantic efforts to avoid abandonment,” your partner may constantly seek affection and approval as a way to prove to themselves that you love them and are not going to leave. You may receive multiple phone calls and texts throughout the day, or have to say something specific to your partner when leaving in order to reassure them that you will be back and are not mad at them. Your partner may also act needy so that you will feel that you cannot leave them alone.

The “intense and quickly changing moods” have probably taken you by surprise before, although partners of those with BPD often get skilled at noticing the warning signs that might go undetected by others. Your partner may be laughing with you one minute, but then get offended by something you say, and become angry and full of rage the next minute.

People with BPD take much longer to calm down from their emotions, once triggered, but—interestingly, yet frustratingly for those around them—quickly forget the emotion once they are calm again, and may wonder why you are still mad at them afterwards.

Like the mood swings, “difficulty controlling anger” can make having a partner with BPD a frightening experience. People with BPD often have problems with a lack of impulse control as well, which means anger can turn into violence. Although this is not true for all people with BPD, it does happen.

This is because the brain centers that control logical thinking are overpowered by the emotional centers. At that point, reasoning with the person is nearly impossible, and they may throw objects, punch walls, slam doors, or break windows.

If your partner has “chronic feelings of emptiness,” they may make comments about how no one cares about them, even though they have friends and family who care about them. They may also engage in risky behaviors, such as promiscuous sex, drugs and alcohol, or gambling, in order to attempt to “fill the void.” Other ways people with BPD to try to end feelings of emptiness is to change jobs frequently, shop for things they don’t need, and throw parties to prove they have worth.

Click here to read more about how BPD can effect a relationship.

Treatment for borderline personality disorder can be very simply when it is addressed from an everything is energy point of view. When we move from the concept of emotions being real and simple energy in motion it allows us to not get emotionally attached and when you are not emotionally attached any of the 9 symptoms listed above are no longer a problem.

And the nice thing about working from the everything is energy level, it doesn’t take that long to get results. Usually it can happen in one to three session and the tools are very easy to learn once you are no longer a slave to what used to be overpowering emotions are available. If you are interested contact us and we’ll see what we can do to help.

In the mean time share treatment for borderline personality disorder with your friends and family because most of us know someone who has a few of the nine symptoms listed above.

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Psychic Powers, Why Do You Have Them?

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It may be a funny question… psychic powers why do you have them only because most people don’t know that they have psychic powers. The funny thing is it happens so much to us that we don’t realize it is psychic powers at work. Most everyone has premonitions that come true and we ignore it and say it was a coincidence. We have all had the experience of knowing who was calling before the phone rang or knew who it was as the phone was ringing.

Dr. Rupert Sheldrake wrote and article over at Wakeup-world.com

These differ from premonitions, where the person involved has an insight into what lies ahead, as when 16-year-old Carole Davies visited a London amusement arcade during the Seventies.

‘While standing looking out into the night, I had a sense of danger,’ she recalled.

‘Then I saw what looked like a picture in front of me showing people on the floor with tiles and metal girders on them. I realised that this was to happen here. I began to shout at people to get out. No one listened.’

Together with her friends, Carole hurried out and went to a nearby cafe.

As they sat inside, they heard sirens in the street outside. A weakness in the arcade building’s structure had brought its roof and walls crashing down on those within.

‘We all ran down the road to see what had happened,’ Carole remembered.

‘It was just as I had seen. A man I had shouted at was being pulled from under the debris.’

We need to look far beyond the traditional scientific view that everything is essentially material or physical, including the human mind

Like Mona Miller and Charles Bernuth before her, Carole was convinced she owed her life to her mysterious sixth sense, a notion which you might expect a scientist of my background to dismiss out of hand.

I am a biologist who has studied, researched and taught at both Cambridge and Harvard, and held senior academic posts on both sides of the Atlantic.

Yet I’ve long believed that presentiments, premonitions and other psychic phenomena such as telepathy should be taken more seriously by my scientific colleagues.

My fascination with this subject began during the Sixties when I was a graduate student in the biochemistry department at Cambridge University.

Similarly, accounts I read of the ‘second sight’ of some inhabitants of the Scottish Highlands included visions of arrivals before the person in question appeared.

But none of this convinced me, converted as I was to the dogma of ‘materialism’ which has dominated scientific thought since the late 19th century, and still does so today.

According to materialists, science will eventually explain everything in terms of physics and chemistry.

And anything that cannot be thus explained can be dismissed as illusory.

But, as I discovered, even laboratory experiments involving strangers had produced results which, if less marked, were still compelling.

For example, the years between 1880 and 1939 saw something of a boom in early psychical research, with the publication of more than 186 studies involving trials in which subjects guessed which randomly selected cards a ‘sender’ was looking at.

When the four million individual results were combined in a statistical procedure called meta-analysis, the overall results were hugely significant because they were considerably more accurate than would have been expected from random chance.

Later experiments during the Seventies involved subjects sleeping in a soundproofed laboratory while a ‘sender’ in another room, and in some cases another building, opened a sealed package containing a randomly selected picture and concentrated on it, trying to influence the subject’s dream.

Sometimes the thought transference was very clear: one subject described having dreamed about buying tickets for a prize fight while the sender was looking at a picture of a boxing match.

Occasionally, it was more symbolic, as when the subject dreamed of a dead rat in a cigar box while the sender was looking at a picture of a dead gangster in a coffin. But in 450 such trials the overall results were very significantly above the chance level.

My research has included more than 4,000 cases of psychic phenomena. Many, like Mona Miller’s near-miss in the Blitz, involve mothers.

Hundreds told me that during the months they were breastfeeding, they’d know when their baby needed them, even from miles away, because they began secreting breast milk.

With the help of a midwife, I studied nine nursing mothers in North London during a two-month period, and found that their unexpected ‘let-downs’ of milk when they were separated from their babies very often coincided with their infants experiencing distress.

The odds against this occurring by chance as often as it did were a billion to one, and this telepathic connection makes good evolutionary sense.

To read more: http://wakeup-world.com/2012/02/07/why-we-all-have-psychic-powers-how-thought-premonitions-telepathy-are-more-common-than-we-thought/

The article goes on to talk about studies done using staring at people who could see you staring and they still felt they were being watched. These are all experiences outside the normal extent of our 5 senses.

So the question… psychic powers why do you have them, is more valid than do you have psychic powers. You have them and you may not recognize them.

If you want to learn how to develop your psychic powers, even if you are not aware you have them, contact us and we’ll see what we can do to help.

If you know you have psychic powers or think you do please like this article and share it with others who know or don’t know they have psychic powers. (And then raise my hand.)

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Is There A Difference Between Illusion Or Truth | Holistic Health Daily

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How do you know when someone is telling  you the truth? How can you tell when you are telling yourself the truth? Is there a difference between illusion or truth? And can you be happy through time for a long time without knowing the truth? Do you need to know the truth to be happy?

Here is an article from Balanced Living Magazine on the subject:

Our mind is designed to create illusions and we use it to search for the truth. Now, THAT’S funny. I don’t care who you are. That’s funny. The mind works through a stimulus – response method. It ask and answers questions continually and it doesn’t matter if the answers are true or false. The mind will give you an answer with the emotional energy spin of this is true even when it’s not.

Your mind, on one level, is in a battle. A fight for supremacy and the fight is between your logic and your emotions. Each one is attempting to rule over the other. There is a place  where they no longer fight for supremacy and integrate blend and balance and that place is called HeartSpace™. And that is another post. Today we have another treat for you. One of our Expert Panel members Jerry Stocking in his Mind Relief Manuscript wrote:

Your Mind Doesn’t Care What Happens
Your mind creates illusions. It cares about what it thinks, not about what really happened. If there are five eyewitnesses to an accident, there are five different reports about what happened. While there are similarities between the reports, different minds perceive things differently: Always.

Often, your mind is too deeply focused on what might happen (worrying) to notice what is happening. Or, it is agonizing about what did happen (regretting), again, ignoring what is happening.

Most of all, your mind is obsessed with what other minds are thinking (mind reading). Your mind is horribly competitive and insecure, comparing you to the neighbors, co-workers, friends, family members and movie stars. Whether these comparisons come out positively or negatively, they still are defensive wastes of brain power.

Your Mind Doesn’t Really Ever Do Anything
Your mind can’t take a walk, but it can think while you are taking a walk. It can’t make love but it can chatter away while you are making love. Your mind can’t hold a job, but it has lots of opinions and judgements about what you do for a living. Your mind can’t really influence what will happen or what has happened but continually acts as though it is in control of practically everything. Your mind seldom shuts up!

To read more: http://balancedlivingmagazine.com/illusion-or-truth-and-a-free-audio/

The more we understand how our mind operates the more we can get things done in a way that is pleasant. Is there a difference between illusion or truth and how can you tell? And does it matter as much as you thought?

 

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Mental Training To Improve Performance

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Many people have a sense that it is a good thing but few use mental training to improve performance. Whether it is a physical performance or simply a mental performance such as working or relating to others, training the mind can make all the difference in the world.

Athletes are encouraged to use mental training in preparing to play their particular sport. However the same benefits of mental training for an athlete are very useful for the non-athlete, because non-athletes compete in a different way and state of mind is so important to anything you do.

Elizabeth Aspen wrote over at elephantjournal.com

The mind is like muscle. It can be taught.

Studies show that the highest achieving athletes are those who train not just physically, but mentally as well. So whether we are just starting out or whether we are seasoned athletes, adding mental training to the game can be a great benefit to overall performance.

Breathing

Before beginning the activity, focus on breathing by taking deep inhalations through the nostrils. This helps bring us into the present moment, while at the same time promoting relaxation. This also helps us feel more centered and therefore, less prone to distraction.

Visualization

The mind cannot differentiate between imagination and reality. Therefore, spend time every day visualizing the performance desired. Incorporate as many of the senses into this in order to make it as real to the mind as possible. For example, imagine what a perfect run through the moguls sounds like and feels like. See the path that your feet need to follow. Imagine how it feels and how it looks. By engaging the senses in this way, we will have a greater chance of repeating what was visualized when the actual time comes. Also imagining the outcomes of the performance can be beneficial as it creates a feeling of confidence. For example, we can visualize reaching the summit after a long hike or climb.

To read the full article visit http://www.elephantjournal.com/2011/11/mental-training-for-athletes–elizabeth-aspen-pseudonym/ 

This is something everyone can benefit from. How do you use mental training to improve performance?

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Use Mental Training If You Want To Be Good At Something.

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If you want to be more than mediocre in anything be it a sport or a relationship or in finances or life itself mental training is the path you want to take. Most people are not aware that mental training is the key to physical training as well as one of the major factors in personal success and happiness.

Logan Christopher gave some good advice over at HealthPro List.

If you’re attempting to get better results in the gym, or excel in your sport, mental training isn’t something you should passively enter into. Neither is it something you do once in awhile. It should be practiced each day. And while you are in the gymnasium it should happen right with each exercise you do.

From Peak Performance by Charles Garfield:

They discussed government-funded athletic programs that integrate sophisticated mental training and vigorous physical training. One study evaluating these intensive programs suggests their potential. Four matched groups of world-class Soviet athletes diligently trained for many hours each week. The training regimens were as follows:

Group I – 100 percent physical training

Group II – 75 percent physical training, 25 percent mental training

Group III – 50 percent physical training, 50 percent mental training

Group IV – 25 percent physical coaching, 75 percent mental training

When the four groups were compared shortly before the 1908 Winter Games in Lake Placid, Group IV had shown significantly greater improvement than Group III, with Groups II and I following, in that order.

In short the more mental training you do the better results you get! Naturally we don’t know the specifics of what exactly they actually did for physical training and mental training. Perhaps Group I-III were overtrained. But I do not believe that accounts for everything.

There are times for precise mental training tactics. Like sitting and visualizing outside of the gymnasium. Also you can blend tactics pre-, post-, and during workouts the entire time. The more that you do the better you will get.

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Even though this article was about physical training it the results apply to in field of endeavor. From work to play, from loneliness to happiness, mental training is a big, big factor.

If you want to get started with improving your mental game for free you may want to learn how to train your thinking here.

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Your Government In Action – Turning Away Fire Fighters From the Current Wild Fires in Texas

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With the current wild fires in Texas I put this story under the Mental Health category because if this doesn’t show some screws loose in Government I don’t know what does.

Our Government is turning away volunteer fire fighters from fighting the fires in Texas who were there BEFORE the government even SEIZED control.

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Brain Training To Help Train Your Thinking

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Brain training to help train your thinking will make you smarter, happier and a pleasure to be around. And on top of that the more brain training you do the better you can handle stress and the easier it is for you to be successful in life.

Even physical fitness training companies recognize the value and effectiveness of brain training as was recently reported by Azzi Training

Brain exercises are various activities that can help in keeping your brain active all the time. If you must have a sound mental system, you’ve got to exercise your brain regularly. You can easily achieve a healthy mind when you keep your brain properly exercised.

Brain exercises vary a lot. Any activity that can keep your brain engaged in the positive sense can be considered a good brain exercise. Listed and discussed below are 5 best brain exercises you can always use to enhance your mental wellness.

1. Meditation

This is the art emptying your mind of various issues while you focus on a particular matter. It’s also a process of contemplating on a subject or series of subject in order to draw some necessary conclusions. Your brain is the seat of mental activity like meditation. When you meditate, you’re invariably exercising your brain for greater efficiency.

2. Reading

The art of reading is a vital brain exercise you must never joke with. Reading keeps your brain active and alive all the time. When you engage in constant reading, your brain is always busy figuring out the meaning of what you’re reading. Your level of understanding is normally improved when you read voraciously. However, you have to be very careful on the kind of books or novels you read. If you read obscene or dirty works, you can get your mind filled up with ugly images. If care is not taken, you brain will be greatly distorted.

3. Writing

You can always get your brain properly exercised through writing. In most cases, creative writing is the best form of endeavor that can keep your brain busy. If you’re the type that uses computer to write, your level of understating is sure to improve. This is because, your brain works faster as you type on the keyboard while at the same time, you’re thinking out the wordings you put on. The more you write on daily basis, the more active your brain becomes in dealing with issues of life.

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Even though these brain training suggestions are very surface level training they are a great start. For one of the best resources on brain training go to http://TrainYourThinking.com to get your FREE complimentary copy of the book that makes brain training and brain exercises simple, easy and fun.

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Mental Training Reduces Anxiety

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Mental training reduces anxiety according to a study reported in the Journal of Veterinary Behavior. Mental training to reduce anxiety, stress or any form of mental or emotional pressure is one of the most natural things in the world to use as the original cause of the anxiety, stress or pressure is how you are using your mind.

Naturally mental training is one of the most effective ways to control unwanted emotions as everything emanates from and through the mind.

In an abstract the Journal of Veterinary Behavior reports…

The aim of the study was to investigate the effects of mental skills training on precompetitive anxiety and performance in nonelite equestrian dressage riders. The intervention comprised mental training techniques, such as goal-setting, relaxation techniques, self-talk, concentration training, and imagery, which are commonly used in sports. Ten Dutch nonelite dressage riders were recruited for the study and used as their own controls. Riders had to participate in an initial competition approximately 6-8 weeks before the beginning of the study. They participated in the second competition approximately 1-2 weeks before the intervention, and in the third, and last, competition upon completion of the 6-week intervention training program. Intervention training took place for 2 hours per week for a period of 6 weeks. A one-way repeated measure analysis of variance with post hoc paired samples t tests revealed a significant difference between competitive results before and after the intervention. Findings suggest that mental skills training has a positive effect on competitive dressage performance in nonelite riders.

Journal of Veterinary Behavior: Clinical Applications and Research, Volume 6, Issue 5, Pages 267-275, September 2011, Authors:Inga A. Wolframm;

www.journalvetbehavior.com/article/S1558…2/abstract

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Proper mental training reduces anxiety in every area of life From Sports to work, from family to friends mental training is one of the keys to living life the way you want and being successful. If you haven’t gotten your free copy of Train Your Thinking, The Power Portal For Lasting Success yet CLICK HERE.

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Since Mental Training Works For Athletes It Will Work For You…

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Since Mental Training works for athletes it will work for you. If you want to be successful. Athletics is all about being successful. Business is all about being successful and relationships are all about being successful. Athletes work, train and condition their bodies to get into a particular mode of fitness. The superior athletes go a step further and make the physical training a lot easier, faster and smoother by taking care of the one area that makes all the difference. They begin to train the one area that effects their performance more than anything else and since Mental Training works for athletes it will work for you to get what you want.

Below is a video from IMG Performance Institute and below that is a link to our FREE Gift to you.

Since Mental Training works for athletes it will work for you. We want to give you a FREE Gift to help you get started. Click Here to get your complimentary copy of “Train Your Thinking, The Power Portal For Long Lasting Success

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